My little experience...
i was raised by a single mother, and always felt the void of a manly figure in my life, but i was bless to get a mentor in the church who gave me a lot of guidance in being morally upright.. however as i grew and interacted more with others I got other mentors who assisted me better in other areas of my life in terms of standing up for myself and improving my confidence whiles others mentors were more helpful in financial matters..
i guess what am saying is we will have strengths and i hope we can find a way to harness it to be of great help to others..